at some point  in all of our lives there will be twist and turns that can change our whole life around.

but just remember to keep breathing...

as long as you can inhale and exhale, whatever your situation is , its temporary. 

losing a loved one brought it all in perspective for me. 

i wanted to stop breathing ... but know matter how dark my situation, my spirit refused to command my body to forget  to breath.

i didn't understand then,  i accept it and embrace now, what is the human spirts intent to survive, through any element or obstacle or twist and turns that come...

we inhale and exhale with a promise for hope in the mist of circumstance.

even when you don't feel like it

Adam was 13 years old and my daughters best friend since 5th grade.  They were together that same day, joking around, I even joked with them for a minute.  It was a cooking fire that claimed the lives of 5 sleeping children a father who escaped only to  go back inside and give the ultimate sacrifice his life.  This wife and mother will be burying her entire family, save for the babe that she carries in her womb.  I can't begin to imagine this emotion, you can't really say how you would react because it all depends on your state of faith'.  The mother said on the news that crying won't bring her babies back, so true but damn...I hurt for her and I hurt for my daughter,  tragedy should not be apart of your childhood friendships memory.  Please pray for Tenisha, pray that God gives her strength and i really don't know what else to say...