in the spirit of valentines day, which i have not recognized in about 5years due to a less than memorable one, i will pose a question for the ladies.
do you prefer a man that is independent or a man that needs taking care of?
to clarify, independent means clean, neat and can cook for himself. basically not clueless without a woman. and needs taking care of means a mutable man. one who can use help with fashion sense & general care and can be worked on(not to be mistaken for manipulated or led). im curious about some of the male perspectives on this too. whether the gents out there fit these categories.