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101 of What Women REALLY Want #3– R-E-S-P-E-C-T

3. RESPECT: There is nothing more beautiful than a man and a woman who respect each other in a relationship. Women love it and need to feel like the men in their lives hold them with honor and would never intentionally do or say anything to disrespect or hurt them. From the way a man speaks to a woman to the way he looks at her, respect will always keep him in her good graces. This not only includes what he says or does to her to her face, but also what he says about her or does behind her back.

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Comments (8)

saidamin

saidamin wrote on Apr 15, 12:42 AM

gin_0

gin_0 wrote on Apr 15, 01:50 AM

Haha Said! 

It seems to me this can be solved early on and relatively painlessly. Communicating clearly when something bothers you, and this can be done in a calm and nice way is important. If there is no respect, there is no relationship.



luvcum4ter

luvcum4ter wrote on Apr 15, 11:30 AM

Thats is so true on both parties.. They must have that mutual  understanding of each other...

deliciouswoman

deliciouswoman wrote on Apr 15, 11:46 AM

You're right about being respected by the men but at the same time; us women sometimes doesn't give the men the respect we're looking for.  We expect them to respect us but how can we when we disrespect them one way or another?  I believe that when two people gets together in a relationship; both should put all the cards on the table of what each other wants out of the relationship and what is not acceptable in a relationship so that each one  knows what is on the table.  My bf and I did this and we talk to each other like we're best of friends knowing that we can respect each other in every way possible.  We put "respect" on our high priortiy list when it comes to relationship because without it; the relationship doesn't work plus other things in the relationship.  So,yes respect is something we all crave for but most of us doesn't give either in relationship or any kind of relationship.  We rarely give respect to strangers when you think of it.  If you respect others; they might respect you back...try it and find out.

steffo676

steffo676 wrote on Apr 16, 04:38 PM

This was an easy one.
I totally agree!!
But of course you can fall in the pit here too.
The trick is to respect your partner when he is not respecting you.
By this I mean, dont explode right away it can be so that he doesn't understan all the subtile nyances of what's rigt and wrong with you.
Now I don't mean the obvius ones like flirting with others and similar.
Allways keep in mind that we are different people and everyone has different walues of what is a step over the line.
It's a good thing to speak before but sooner or later he/she will step on your sore toe and then it's time to explain instead of the lethal counterstrike.
(love this blog series, keep it up girls!!)
(And you too boys, then you will make your lady happy....) Cool

blkmamba

blkmamba wrote on Apr 16, 04:44 PM

Preach on girl!!!

satareh

satareh wrote on Apr 18, 03:01 AM

YES! Respect!! So very true...

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on Aug 02, 08:14 PM

Boy! Talk about hitting the hammer on the head! "Respect" is such a popular word used by all when asked what they want from a relationship but don't ask for what you are not ready to give is what I say. Respect and love yourself first. Yes, we all know "respect" is earned but when you enter into a potential relationship, enter with an open mind and heart. If you are not healed from previous relationships or experiences, heal first please. This way, you don't get angry easily or mistrust easily and therefore you will love easier and respect should follow naturally. I always say, love conquers all but it must be love from both ends not a one sided love!...and for crying out loud....please men, get rid of too much pride and pick up the phone and/or write or speak your feelings. Us women need to hear it. You gooo Masriyaatl!!

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