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I would like to hear some comments on fbeing a female boss in todays workplace.  This work week has been so frustrating for me.  This week confirmed the project manager for the contract I am responsible for----has been stabbing me in the back for the last two years.  I like a fool have been fighting for quality of life improvements for him and his people.  I overheard a staff meeting between the project manager and the staff.  I heard him tell the staff that he did not want them to come into my office telling me about nothing that was going on there in the office and I I was a little hurt but I am a professional.  I guess I could understand his attitude if I were ........................

Ha ha, I should starting being a real witch and see how they like that.  This is one of those days when I don't want to be a grown up.  I want to take my ball and go home!

Comments (4)

cretura

cretura wrote on Feb 09, 12:51 AM

Office power plays are so wiked. My first question is what would this person gain by isolating you? What are they trying to achieve? Do you present them with obstruction?  What is so threatening about your leadership?

gin_0

gin_0 wrote on Feb 09, 02:07 AM

Over the years, I've had to learn to trust then when I need to be a bitch, the people I need to be a bitch with will remember that I am not alway a bitch. BUT BACK OFF! haha

ladiablesse

ladiablesse wrote on Feb 10, 11:39 PM

I tell everyone that I am a bitch and I don't claim not to be. I can be the nicest person you can meet unless you push me the wrong way. I am honest to a fault and I don't believe in lying. So if one of my co-workers are right about something then I say so but if they are wrong I will also say that.  Yet people don't seem to believe me and continue to try my patience!! They don't take me seriously and are forever trying to catch me doing something wrong or prove me wrong. I am never one to say that I am always right but if I point something out it is because I have looked at it 360 degrees... left, right, up, down, over and under. Thankfully my boss knows how I work and appreciates it most of the time. But somehow I wonder if I was a man if things would be different? One way or the other I say continue to work at your best and don't let any compromise you and your integrity!

I AM WOMAN>>>HEAR ME ROAR!!!

zazzytaz

zazzytaz wrote on Feb 11, 11:07 PM

From standpoint I've done nothing that would cause him to try and isolate me.  Here is the deal the QA before me was in the job for nearly as long as the contract manager.  He (the project manager has had this position for 21 years and the previous QA was in retirment mode.  He really did not police the contract like he should have and from what I hear from the workers and the files left in the office he didn't really do much to make sure the contractor was following the guidelines set forth in the regulations.  Anyway he has been allowed to basically do whatever he wanted and that did not always mean doing it by the regs.  So here I come, not ready to retire and I enforce the rules.  For instance, when I took over the job I conducted a survey of the customers to see how we were doing--we were not doing well at all.  I then had a team of inspectors from another base come do a staff assistance visit (we were due an evaluation by a team of inspectors who come and inspect the organization every 18 months and the last time they were there we got a major write-up) on my area to see how we were doing in that aspect--we failed miserably.  I found out where our deficiencies were and fixed them.  My job was on the line if we got a repeat write up.  I came in and cleaned up--but get this--He was right there with me through the whole process, acting like it was a team effort--but as I look back over it all the things I did --he should have done. cretura,  he has nothing to gain by isolating me, he has gone so far as to threaten his staff their jobs if they talk to me.  He refers to me as nosy because I immersed myself and learned the different processes.  The set up of the office is such that I can be in another area and they not see me but I can hear whatever is said and if I were talking they would be able to hear me but not see me.  Well I've been where they could not see me and I've heard him say things likeI've done this job for 21 years and just cause she has a Masters degree she thinks she can do it better than me or I knew I never should have ALLOWED her back here.  I want to come from the room I was in and say first of all you don't allowed me anyathing, every stinking process you own I have authority to look at!!!  But I did not , I just noted it and continued to help his dumb butt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  My contract manager!!!!!      Just kidding--makes me feel better though!:-)

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