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Being a Muslim in a Non-Muslim Society

This is a topic I've been thinking a lot about lately. For me, I was born and raised in the U.S., and it's where I'm currently residing. It's been interesting for me to grow religiously and spirituality amongst so many non-muslims. Most of my friends are non-muslims, and I love each one of them as if they were my own brothers and sisters. But, there is, indeed, a difference. One of the reasons why I joined this neighborhood was to connect with more people like me. It's interesting to talk to people and see that I'm not the only one who gets tired of constantly explaining myself. Constantly explaining how muslims in the true sense are in fact NOT terrorists. And how, in fact, all muslim women are not beaten by their men as an acceptable form of punishment.

Those are just the two stereotypes that come to my mind right off the bat. I am proud of where I came from and proud of my beliefs, and it's so sad to me that there are a lot of nutsos out there who don't know the difference between fact and fiction and who also don't care to take the time to find out for themselves. I got an email today from one of my friends talking about the hit TV show "24" and how it's really becoming obvious that there's a reason why it's a favorite of the Bush administration. Unfortunately, this kind of "propoganda" is not what this country needs right now. It's rare you see anything positive about muslims and Islam in general on tv or any other media source. For me, it makes me angry and makes me want to do something about it. But, where I get stuck is where and how can I make a difference? I do educate people around me to the best of my ability, but it seems like the ignorance is spreading so quickly and so fiercely. I'm just putting this topic out there, and I'm interested to see what the response is and how others are feeling/dealing with it. If you respond to my blog, I'm asking you to please respond in an educated manner where we can all be heard. Thanks for reading my blog!

Comments (40)

gin_0

gin_0 wrote on Jan 22, 03:51 PM

Hi Masryiaatl,

I guess what gets lost in this time of overgeneralization is the truth. For me it is that we are all the same. "Those people' only leads to demonization as if they are so different and alien from ourselves.  We cry, we laugh, we love and we are foolish and all the other things everyone is. 

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 22, 03:56 PM

Hello M... Thank you for this interesting post...I can understand yours and other Muslim's frustration in the theme of this season's "24".  It is unfortunate that some Americans could watch this issue and be brain washed into thinking that the majority of muslims are terrorists and that they want to kill as many Americans as possible; of course we know that that's not the reality.  The reality is that the majority of Arab/Muslims are peaceful people and would like to live in harmony with other people of faith.  The problem is that a minority of fanatic Muslims have hijacked Islam and it's teaching to suit their own motives through their own misguided interpretations.  The unfortunate reality is that all of the suicide bombings in the last few years, in different parts of the world have been carried out by Muslims in the name of their religion and God, hence the stereotyping of Muslims being terrorists.

This is what baffles me, and maybe you or someone else can explain it to me:  Arab/Muslims are very quick to condemn, protest, and come out against TV shows and movies where a Muslim is shown to be a terrorist, but I rarely hear any Muslim condemning the actual suicide bombings that happen around the world.  Moderate Muslims become very upset with a show like 24 but yet they refuse to criticize  the real world events which can give rise to such shows that can cause ignorant Americans to become misinformed.

I am a secular atheist and as such I'm 100% against wars, no matter what the cause is.  We need to realize that we are all Homo Sapiens sharing a small blue and green planet that's been around for billions of years; we are here for a very limited time.  God does not exist; never has and never will.  We (humans) are responsible for our own destiny. 

nubianbutterfly

nubianbutterfly wrote on Jan 22, 06:55 PM

This is for mostly for Shobidoobidoo, and for anyone else who doesn't have google.
"The undersigned, leaders of Islamic movements, are horrified by the events of Tuesday 11 September 2001 in which the United States resulted in massive killing, destruction and attack on innocent live. We express our deepest sympathies and sorrow. We condemn, in the strongest term, the incidents, which are against all human and Islamic norms. This is grounded in the Noble Laws of Islam which forbid all forms of attacks on the innocent. God almighty says in the Holy Qur'an: "No bearer of burdens can bear the burden of another' (Surah al-Isra 17:15)"

posted Sept 14th MSAN News


"[WE] strongly condemn such activities that are against all humanist and Islamic morals...[We] condemn and oppose all aggression on human life, freedom and dignity anywhere in the world"
posted 19 Sept 2001 Al-Ahram weekly

"Besides the fact that they are forbidden by Isam, these acts do not serve those who carried them out but their victims, who will reap the sympathy of the whole world...Isamist who live arccording to the human values of Isam could not commit such crimes.
posted Sept 14th 2001 france press

Do the research! It goes on and on from the bombing of the USS Cole, from what just happened in Bagdad a few hours ago with the road side bombinf that killed 100 plus there is even a statement from the Oklahoma City bombing. Christ Almighty please know what you are talking about and do your research so others won't have to do it for you.

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 22, 07:28 PM

Nubian, thank you for reminding me that you can find anything on google.  For every statement of condemnation that you can find on suicide bombings, there is one in favor of it in the real world.  After 9/11 mostly everyone condemned those deplorable acts.  I'm not referring to those public statements, I'm talking about real condemnation.  It's not merely enough to condemn these acts, you have to look at the main cause of it; religion.  Do you honestly believe that a suicide bomber would blow himself up if he wasn't sure that heaven and virgins are awaiting him???

And since you like to google, maybe you should google the reverse of your search above!  Below is an excerpt from Human Rights News from April of 2006:

The new Hamas-led Palestinian Authority put itself on the wrong side of the most fundamental principle of international humanitarian law when Hamas’s official spokesman defended Monday’s suicide bombing in Tel Aviv, Human Rights Watch said today.
Human Rights Watch called on the Palestinian government led by the Islamic Resistance Movement, or Hamas, to state unambiguously that attacks targeting civilians constitute grave crimes no matter what the circumstances. The Palestinian Authority must take concrete steps to prevent such attacks and bring those responsible for them to justice.  
 
“In forming a government, Hamas took on the responsibility to prevent unlawful attacks against civilians by its own forces and other Palestinian armed groups as well,” said Joe Stork, deputy director of Human Rights Watch’s Middle East and North Africa division.  
 
The Palestinian armed group Islamic Jihad claimed responsibility for Monday’s attack in a Tel Aviv café, which killed nine civilians in addition to the bomber. After the attack Sami Abu Zuhri, a long-time official spokesman for Hamas, was widely quoted as saying that “the operation is a natural reaction to continued Israeli crimes against our people,” and that “the Palestinian people are in a state of self defense and have every right to use all means to defend themselves.”  
 
Other Hamas officials also endorsed the attack. Wasfi Kabha, minister for prisoners’ affairs in the government, told reporters that the attack occurred “in the framework of legitimate right of resistance against Israeli violations and crimes.” Musa Abu Marzuk, a senior member of Hamas’s political bureau, called the attack “a natural response to the Israeli aggression on our people.”

nubianbutterfly

nubianbutterfly wrote on Jan 22, 11:20 PM

Hey Shoo,

I think you are making my point.

HAMAS (in Arabic, an acronym for "Harakat Al-Muqawama Al-Islamia" -- Islamic Resistance Movement -- and a word meaning zeal) is a radical Islamic fundamentalist organization which became active in the early stages of the intifada, operating primarily in the Gaza District but also in Judea and Samaria. Formed in late 1987 as an outgrowth of the Palestinian branch of the Muslim Brotherhood. Various HAMAS elements have used both political and violent means, including terrorism, to pursue the goal of establishing an Islamic Palestinian state in place of Israel. Loosely structured, with some elements working clandestinely and others working openly through mosques and social service institutions to recruit members, raise money, organize activities, and distribute propaganda. In a January 2006 election, Hamas won a majority of seats in the Palestinian legislature.

Hamas is a terrorist organization.

And of course the Human Rights Watch is alarmed by their statements..and rightly so. Now you said "you have to look at main cause of it" all one has to do is read what you have posted:

"The operation is a natural reaction to the continued Israeli crimes against our peolpe" ,and that the Pelestinian people are in a state of self defense, and have every right to use all means to defend ourselfs"

And anothing thing, when you are quoting something, please do not take it out of context.
Hamas is an radical Islamic fundamentalist organization which claims to be the Islamic Resistance Movement. Knowing that, you then have to ask your self why this type a group won in a landslide their  general legislative elections?
Because you chose Hamas to make my point here are some sites and books you should check out:
 www.mideastweb.org/timeline.htm This site will show how far back this conflict between Palenstine vs. Israel goes
 www.masada2000.org/history.html This site is pretty easy to understand, and it will show the Palestines are "up in arms"


*Understanding Terrorism in America: From the Klan to Al Qaeda, by Christopher Hewitt
*Dictionary of Terrorism by Charles Townsed
*Origin of the Palenstine-Irael Conflict
*Terrorism and U.S. Foreign Policy Paul R. Pillar

You also stated that,  "For every statement of condemnation that you can find on suicide bombings, there is one in favor of it in the real world."    I was wondering if you could do me a favor? Will you please post three quotes "in favor", and also where you found them.  Oh and one more thing, none of the quotes you post can be from any known terrorist groups.

 Will you also post a link to the Human Rights Watch you quoted above,
Thanks Nubiam

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 23, 12:55 PM

Nubian, thank you for your reply, it was interesting and informative. 

One thing I do not want to do here is to take sides on the Israeli and Palestinian conflict, because in my mind both are extremely wrong.  I'm also well aware of the many definitions of Terrorism and it's long, devastating, and meaningless history.  I beg of you not to give me a history lesson as to why the Palestinians are doing what they are doing and why the Israelis are doing what they are doing.  Bottom line; both sides are killing each other because both sides think that there god has given them that piece of dry and barren land.  Think about it for a minute...it's absolutely ridiculous, for an atheist like me, to see people killing each other over a piece of land??!!

Listen, it is very difficult to resolve the issue on hand if we have to keep referring to it's history, because history only shows the mistakes that have been committed on both sides.  It would be one thing to learn from history and make sure not to repeat it's mistakes, but in this case it seems the history books only serve to fuel the fire.

Nubian, I'm glad you joined Nuzizo  :-)

nubianbutterfly

nubianbutterfly wrote on Jan 23, 07:46 PM

Hey Shoo, Thanks for that dap, I love the peace symbol.

I think you've misunderstood me. I not trying to give you a "History Lesson". I wanted you to simply make your point. In your 1st comment your stated:

"Arab/Muslims are very quick to condemn, protest, and come out against TV shows and movies where a Muslim is shown to be a terrorist, but I rarely hear any Muslim condemning the actual suicide bombings that happen around the world."

That statement really rubbed med the wrong way, and I posted the comments that you stated you raley heard, and posted where you could find it. Then you dismissed those comments by saying:


"For every statement of condemnation that you can find on suicide bombings, there is one in favor of it in the real world."

I asked you to post just three of those comments that didn't come from any known terrorist groups, and you haven't. I would love to see things from your point of view, but so far you haven't shown me anything to go on.

As far as the history goes, it is I feel, extreamly important to understand what's going on.
The study of history has allowed us to give appropriations to the Japenese American's wronged in WWII, and even to some desendants of Slavery.  And yes, I can understand why people are fighting over land, and other property that has been stolen from them.

For an example, let's say you have an army, with all the bells and whistles. And you thought my house and land would serve you better than me, so you take it. So what am I to do with no army or LED's? I would thow rocks, flamming bottles of gasolise, and yes maybe even blow myself up. Because "if I can't have it niether will you". And hopefully you haven't missed the point, hopefully you have something you would be willing to fight, kill and die for. I know I do and it's not my house I used that only as an example. 
So your an atheist?  Never once did I think to point out what I see as flaws in your conviction. For you to post  "God does not exist; never has and never will." is just the same as if you were knocking door to door handing out those little copies of Jehovah's Witnesses books.  I could only image how hot you'd be if I directed you to a "power of prayer" site. Just take a minute to think about how'd you'd feel if I did. You'd be pist, wouldn't you?  Now you know exatly how Masriyaatl is going to feel when she see's your post.  You have to be more aware that you are not the only person on earth with very passionate convictions. And if you don't want anyone to step on your toes about your very, very passionate beliefs, please watch where you step.

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jan 24, 12:35 AM

Wow, guys. I had no idea in posting my blog that I would spark such a conversation, and I have to say it's quite interesting. First, I want to make it clear to not only you two who have responded to my blog, but to anyone who reads it. I totally respect anyone's right to believe whatever it is they believe, BUT I also refuse to be told that something I'm very passionate about doesn't exist. For me, just because I can't touch, see, smell or taste it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. For me, I feel it in my heart and I feel it in my soul. It would be like saying to me that love doesn't exist...and I think there isn't anyone who would believe that.

With that being said, I do believe that what is happening in Palestine/Israel is obviously not an ideal situation for anyone involved. I've always been the type to stick up for PEOPLE in general and not take sides. But, with this conflict, it's hard for me to not get passionate about it. I think you both made some good points and simply because of the nature of the Palestinian/Israeli conflict, I do feel for what the Palestinians are dealing with. Even the Human Rights organization in Israel, B'tselem (http://www.btselem.org) talks about the injustice. Someone I love so dearly is stuck there right now because his father passed away and can't claim land that is in his name because he's been away for a period greater than 7 years. So, he had to uproot his life in the U.S. and move back for a period of at least two years to claim what his father and his family built from the ground up. It just doesn't seem right to me. And maybe there is an argument in the reverse, but this topic definitely strikes a cord deep inside me. I want to make it clear that organizations like Hamas and Hezbollah wouldn't have existed if there was an effective sounding board to bring justice to ALL habitants in this area. The U.S. goverment chooses to ignore that there are two sides in this situation. And, as we all know there are two sides to every story. I pray every night that God above guides both parties to the best solution and ultimately peace. It's through peace and communication that will make a difference.

And as far as Shoo's inquiry into why Muslims don't speak out about acts of terrorism, I want to assure you, Shoo, that muslims speak out against these horrendous acts all the time. It's the media who chooses not to broadcast it. The president of ISNA (Islamic Society of North America) has spoken many times to assure the public that these acts are not condoned by its society or the religion as a whole. The president of Free Muslims against Terrorism has also spoken out many times. It's just a matter of what news source you read to know that Muslims like me are outraged, and we do communicate to that effect. Unfortunately, the media takes Qur'anic text out of context to make for a more dramatic "story." You can do that to any book anywhere and have the same effect. I have a deep respect for all religions and for what anyone believes, so please don't misunderstand what I'm trying to say. I think the larger issue is ignorance...and it starts from the top....from President Bush on down. We as not just a nation, but as a people, need to understand who this world is made up of. We need to understand that people's religions and cultures means everything to them and it's understandable that people will fight for what they believe in. So, with that being said, imagine if every citizen of this world took it upon himself or herself to be educated. Wouldn't this world be a much better place to live in? Wouldn't we look at each other more as brothers and sisters and less like enemies?

In the words of Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along?"

nubianbutterfly

nubianbutterfly wrote on Jan 24, 06:18 AM

Hi Masriyaatl, I hope beyond anything that I did not upset you, that was the very last thing I wanted to do.  I have had the opportunity to travel extensivly through out the middle east, asia, and africa.  I have to remeber that not every has had my life experiences or education level. And I could debate this issue until I can no longer breath, but if the person, or persons I am debating with do not take it upon themselves to be educated it will turn in to a shouting match.  I am so adamant and passonaite about this subject, that sometimes I get carried away. So, until I can win every battle :) I will do my very best to get along. I didn't mean to upset either you or Shoo. (ok, maybe I wanted to upset Shoo a little bit, but only because I took some of his commets personal and maybe I shouldn't have.)

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jan 24, 11:42 AM

Hi, Nubian! You did not upset me in the least. I appreciate your passion on this subject and the knowledge you bring to this conversation. I wish more people would take the time to understand both sides to ANY situation. The world would be a much more peaceful place to live in. Too many people believe everything they read or see on TV and very few actually take the time to read up on their own and do their own research. If people think that the media sources in this country alone are enough to get the full story, they are sadly mistaken.

I also get very passionate about this subject, and thank you for backing up your passion with your research.


shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 24, 01:41 PM

Dear Masriya and Nubian,

I'm getting the feeling that you think of me as a muslim hater, most likely due to the fact that I'm criticizing your religion and the acts that are done in it's name.  Please allow me to assure you that I have a serious problem with all religions and all gods.  I am also not taking sides in regard to the Palestinians and Israelis...again, both sides are very seriously wrong in their beliefs, religious and political.  I agree that most of the world has turned a blind eye to the plight of the Palestinians, and that most of the atrocious and heinous crimes of the Israeli government has gone on for many years without any serious condemnation.  But, what kind of resolution is strapping bombs to yourself and getting on a bus and blowing yourself up into smithereens.  Killing innocent people will not make anything better and justice will not be served.  Just look at all the innocent people who have been killed by the Israelis in the occupied territories.  We can debate this issue forever, but peace is the ultimate solution.

Masriya, in your reply you mentioned that you refuse to be told that something you are so passionate about doesn't exist!!!  Let me first say that I am in no way trying to disrespect anyone, however I am respectfully criticizing people's belief in a sky god.  Just because it is something you are passionate about, it doesn't make it immune to criticism.  Ponder this for a second; I can criticize anyone's political views without being called disrespectful.  I can pretty much criticize any belief of others as long as it is done respectfully and intellectually.  However, religion and belief in god have for some reason become off limit to criticism!!!  Why?  When billions of people believe in certain dogmas and those dogmas shape our world and effect just about everyone on this earth, why can't it be criticized.  When you say you refuse to be told, you are one step away from taking away my freedom of speech.  Answer this for me; If I were to go to a muslim nation, lets say Saudi Arabia and I publicly denounce the existence of god and say that Mohammad was just an ordinary man; what would happen to me?  I think you know what would be the outcome of such an act!!!

I have not read your profiles, but I take it that you are both Muslims.  Why are you not Christian, Catholic, Jew, or Buddhist???  Do you believe in the virgin birth??? Do you believe that Jesus was the son of God???  Do you believe in the story of Noah's Arc???  Do you believe the story of Genesis???

I will leave you with this...In the world of science, where experiments are done and results are achieved, there is no shred of evidence for the sky god or a creator, None.  God, like you said Masriya, you feel in your heart and soul, which means it's all in your head.  Your heart's function is to pump blood through out your body, and your soul, well that's a whole different topic.  What you feel so passionately about has been taught to you ever since you were a impressionable little girl, and as a baby we are genetically programmed to listen and believe everything that our parents tell us, because it is mostly for our own good.  We can not afford not to trust our parents and experiment for ourselves, so we believe.  If you were born to Japanese parents, you would most likely be an atheist, think about that.

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jan 24, 03:44 PM

Shoo, I in no way told you that you cannot express your opinions when it comes to your beliefs. By my saying that I refuse to be told that God doesn't exist doesn't mean that you can't believe that for yourself. I'm simply talking about me. Just as you have your right to express yourself, I do as well.

Now, for me to talk about why people strap bombs to themselves, etc. is not my place. I'm not in their shoes. I have so much to be thankful for that I almost feel guilty that so many people in this world have it way worse than I do.  I never said that one side is more right than the other. I happen to agree with a lot of what you said concerning the Israeli/Palestinian issue.

If you really knew your western religions (Christianity, Judaism and Islam), you'd know the answer to half of the questions you asked me about believing in the virgin birth, etc. But, since you are asking, I'm happy to explain it to you because knowledge is power. All three western religions believe in the Virgin Mary, Noah's Arc, the Genesis, etc. The difference between the 3 (the main difference anyway) is how Jesus is viewed. In Islam, Jesus is a prophet of God. Just like Moses, Noah, David, Muhammed (PBUH), etc. He spread the word of God according to Islam just like Muhammad did.

And to answer your question about what would happen to you if you went to Saudia Arabia and denounced God, etc. Have you ever been to know what would happen? People of all beliefs and cultures live in Saudia Arabia. You just wouldn't be allowed into Mecca because you're not Muslim. So, I'm not really sure what your point is except to spread the ignorance that I have previously discussed.

Now, I haven't once in my blog comments tried to convince you that God does in fact exist because I respect your beliefs. So why then are you now trying to convince me that He doesn't? I appreciate your view point, but I honestly am not interested in discussing this issue of God vs. no God. I am politely choosing to agree to disagree.


saidamin

saidamin wrote on Jan 24, 05:13 PM

thought provoking posts...

this thread has inspired me to ask, how can the good people of this earth come together and live better? religion has unfortunately become an excuse/scapegoat for some people's hatred, finger pointing and political agendas. peoples skin, faith, place of birth, gender, has no bearing on the personal choice for how one chooses to live.  i believe that the majority of humans (spiritual, pious and non-pious) are loving citizens of this earth who choose to live "well" and that only a small minority of extremist, narrow minded people spread hatred and fear; unfortunately, extremist voices often make the most noise.  nevertheless, we can rise together one by one, hand in hand, as loving brothers and sisters of all faiths/backgrounds, and allow our collective voices, dreams, energy and love to spread.

inspiration and love are contagious, but it starts with you.

i believe, therefore i am.

life is good!

one,
-s

(ps: sorry for getting off topic from your original post)

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jan 24, 05:34 PM

I so agree with you and ultimately you made my point without even knowing it. I have friends from all over, and I love them all. Not because they agree with me about my own beliefs, but because of who they are in my life. Many of my friends and I don't agree on some things, but it doesn't stop the love we have for one another regardless of our differences.

Thanks for your words. I'm glad you're my friend!

ladiablesse

ladiablesse wrote on Jan 24, 05:41 PM

Two thumbs up for Said!! I too believe that people use religion and personal beliefs to persecute and hate others who do not believe what they believe, look like they look or walk the same line as they do. Who was it that said "Can't we all just get along?" lol

I don't care what if you believe in God, Allah, Jehovah or just yourself. What I care about is how you treat me and others around you. If you ask yourself are you doing things to help your fellow man, whether it be small or big, whenever the opportunity arises and you can answer yes, then you are a good person and that is all that counts.

One love...
Lee

honeybee

honeybee wrote on Jan 24, 06:33 PM

Well put Said ...
all of you have your points - passions - beliefs ... none of you are wrong ... what is wrong is telling people what they should or shouldn't believe because someone or something told them it is so (ie. Mullahs, Priests, Scientists) ... Shooby makes a point but then shoots himself in the foot ... Shoob puts down religion, however, the way he talks about Atheism one would think he is talking about a religion ... he too happens to belong to a common belief system that a group of people believes in ... hmmm sounds like religion to me ... whether you believe in a God, gods, goddesses, or No god at all ... it's just that ... a belief ... why this back and forth ... it's another case of someone thinks they are smarter than someone else ... their pen is larger than yours and so on ... it only leads to dislike and friction ... move on from the negativity ... I'm not saying their is anything wrong with criticism ... and after a couple words of debate doesn't lead to a resolution ... Breathe ... let it go ... move on to something that brings positive energy and good change to your community ...
Now to get back to the original question that Masriyattl posed in the beginning: Masriyattl, all you can do is to keep doing what you are doing ... first make sure that you are knowledgable about the topic you are trying to educate others on and relay this information in a sensitive unbiased way ... education is the key/remedy to many of the trials and tribulations that the world is struggling through today. When it comes to the topics of religion, culture, tradition, etc ... make sure the person is aware that you are expressing your opinion on the subject and that the same beliefs may or may not be viewed the same by all in that religion, culture, or tradition ... because, once again then you have someone else walking away thinking that all Muslims believe what you believe in or don't believe in ... so I can make myself dizzy with all of this as well ... because here we are again ... how do we educate each other on these topics when even the beliefs of the people from your same "belief" view somethings differently??? I know and sympathize with your feelings that you mentioned in the blog ... I am an American of Iranian descent born and raised in the south ... talk about the constant questions, judgements, assumations!!! I'm not saying whether I'm a Muslim, Christian, Jewish, or Buddhist because I believe that your actions speak louder than words or labels ... my religion is for me to know, nobody else's business ... saying this, you don't know how many people group me into a category without even checking with me ... I've had a supposed educated Professor tell me "I would convert to Islam just to have your pretty skin coloring" ... first of all we will not mention that DUH religion has nothing to do with skin color ... but did she even ask me or know what faith I affiliate myself with ... the same thing goes for the many people this past Christmas telling me that they didn't know if they should send me a card because they might offend me ... but do those people know that I may too be a Christian ... No they just assumed that I couldn't be because of the region that my ancestors were from ... it makes me laugh ... and it makes me sad ... and we are just pinpointing the ignorance of people about religion and creed ... I have also delt with ignorance because of where I grew up and live ... many of my fellow Iranians have made remarks about the south when they have no knowledge of it first hand ... People unfortunately are the same anywhere you go ... they go on what they hear or see on TV or because thier Uncle Ahmad told them so .... LOL
Take it easy ... we can only start small (with ourselves and our own families) and perhaps that knowledge will grow and florish with a little bit of water and a whole lot of Miracle Grow !!!
Live life & be happy!
Mellissa :-)

nubianbutterfly

nubianbutterfly wrote on Jan 24, 08:06 PM

I so love the comments post by Said, Ladiablesse, but especailly by Honybee.  Honybee I don't think I could have put it as beautifully as you did. Thank you so much for your post. To answer Shoo's question, no I am not muslum.  But the fact that you didn't even read our profiles, and just assumed that we are both muslum just proves Masriyaatl's point that the world would be such a better place if  "every citizen upon himself or herself to be educated. Wouldn't this world be a much better place to live in? Wouldn't we look at each other more as brothers and sisters and less like enemies?"  Shoo, have you ever been to Saudi Arabia? It doesn't seem like it, but if you went to New York and screamed the very same thing, well the outcome of such an act in NY, is pretty much the same outcome as you'd rec'v in Saudi Arabia.

Oh Shoo one more thing:


Japan's religious history has been a long process of mutual influence between religions.  Shinto has been a big part of Japanese life ever since the beginning of Japan's history and continues today.

When Buddhism was introduced into Japan in the sixth century, it started to have an effect on the Shinto beliefs, and vise versa.   An interesting example of this interaction is honji suijaku, in which shinto kami were seen as the incarnations of Buddhist deities.

Two other religions that were brought into Japan are Confucianism and Taosim.  For more than 1,000 years, these religions have had significant impact on Japan's society.  The rules of Confucianism have had major impact on the ethical and political philosophy by it's influence during the sixth to ninth centuries and later from 1600 to 1868.  The use of the Chinese calendar, fortune-tellers, among other things is a result of Taoism in Japan.  It is much harder to trace than Confucianism, it's influences are still seen today.

you can find this @ www.asianinfo.com

The Japanese religious tradition is made up of several major components, including Shinto, Japan’s earliest religion, Buddhism, and Confucianism. Christianity has been only a minor movement in Japan. However, the so-called “new religions” that arose in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries are a prominent feature of Japanese religious life today.
www.iniana.edu

Religions in japan are classified into Shinto, Buddhism, Christianity, and miscellaneous religions. Shinto is essentially indigenous, but has been heavily influenced by Buddhist ideas and practices. Buddhism and Christianity were both introduced from abroad, but the degree to which they have become indigenous to Japan differs substantially. Miscellaneous religions are mostly the so-called New Religions.
www.utexas.edu

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jan 24, 09:55 PM

Well said Honeybee. I appreciate your input and your refreshing take on this subject. Thank you!

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 25, 01:29 PM

honeybee...you said, and I quote: "what is wrong is telling people what they should or shouldn't believe because someone or something told them it is so (ie. Mullahs, Priests, Scientists)"  You are being intellectually dishonest to yourself and everyone else when you put Mullahs and Priests in the same category as Scientists.  According to your logic, we should not believe in any of the discoveries and advancements that scientists have made throughout our history; I have to respectfully say that your statement above is incredibly flawed. 

The word science is derived from the Latin word Scire, which means to know.  Science is the investigation of natural phenomena through observation, theoretical explanation, and experimentation, or the knowledge produced by such investigation.  Science makes use of the scientific method, which includes the careful observation of natural phenomena, the formulation of a hypothesis, the conducting of one or more experiments to test the hypothesis, and the drawing of a conclusion that confirms or modifies the hypothesis.

Mullahs, and Priests do nothing to advance our civilization; Science does. 

"Examples of God's failure to protect humanity are everywhere to be seen.  The city of New Orleans for instance was recently destroyed by a hurricane.  More than a thousand people died; tens of thousands lost all their earthly possessions; and nearly a million were displaced.  It is safe to say that almost every person living in New Orleans at the moment Hurricane Katrina struck shared the same belief in an omnipotent, omniscient, and compassionate God.  But what was God doing while Katrina laid waste to their city?  Surely he heard the prayers of those elderly men and women who fled the rising waters for the safety of their attics, only to be slowly drowned there.  These were people of faith.  These were good men and women who had prayed throughout their lives.  Do you have the courage to admit the obvious?  These poor people died talking to an imaginary friend.  Of course, there had been ample warning that a storm of biblical proportions would strike New Orleans, and the human response to the ensuing disaster was tragically inept.  But it was inept only by the light of Science.  Religion offered no basis for a response at all.  Advance warning of Katrina's path was wrested from mute Nature by meteorological calculations and satellite imagery.  God told no one of his plans.  Had the residents of New Orleans been content to rely on the beneficence of God, they wouldn't have known that a killer hurricane was bearing down upon them until they felt the first gusts of wind on their faces.  And yet, as will come as no surprise to anyone here, a poll conducted by the Washington Post found that the event has only strengthened their faith in God.  Why, because the survivors imagine that they were spared through God's grace.

It is time we recognized the boundless narcissism and self-deceit of the saved.  It is time we acknowledged how disgraceful it is for the survivors of a catastrophe to believe themselves spared by a loving God, while this same God drowned infants in their cribs.  Once you stop swaddling the reality of the world's suffering in religious fantasies, you will feel in your bones just how precious life is, and indeed, how unfortunate it is that millions of human beings suffer the most harrowing abridgments of their happiness for no good reason at all." 
Excerpt from Sam Harris' book, Letter to a Christian Nation.

Later I will reply to your assertion that my atheism is a form of religion. 

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 25, 04:10 PM

Nubian...I see you did your research into the Japanese religions.  I'm well aware of the history of the different Japanese religions, if you can call them that; although Shinto and Buddhism are more of a Japanese culture than a religion.  Buddhism actually does not incorporate the worship of a sky god, as is normal in the three major religions of today.  And Shinto is a lot more similar to paganism.

According to Norris and Inglehart (2004), 65% of those in Japan do not believe in God.  Therefore I'm right when I say that if you were born in Japan, you would more than likely be an atheist, and if not and atheist, you would most likely not believe in a sky god.

I wish that you could comprehend my point rather than trying to correct my assertion.  My point is that all infants are born atheist, but then we become infested with our parents delusions of a sky god and his profits.  The religion we adopt is not our choice, rather we learn to accept it purely because our parents tell us to believe, with absolutely no shred of evidence.

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 25, 04:24 PM

Honeybee...this is my response to your assertion that Atheism is a religion.

Of all the absurd propositions advanced by religious persons, the idea that atheism is a religion may be the most far-fetched.  All religions have the same underlying premise: to avoid the reality of earthly existence and to get 'right' with some supernatural realm, whether it be God, Nirvana, or the 'oneness of the universe.  Religion thus functions as an escape mechanism, and its adherents are intent on escaping reality rather than confronting it head-on.  Some religionists claim that atheism is a religion because atheists deal with and concern themselves with religion. This is patently absurd; calling an atheist a religious person because he or she deals with religion is like calling a fireman an arsonist because he deals with fire.  The atheist is, or should be, a person with self-confidence and the ability to think freely, without the crutch of religious superstition. Atheists concern themselves with the problems of this world, not with ways of making Brownie points with some imaginary deity to gain entry into an imaginary next world. Atheists see many of the problems in the world as emanating from the same source: the irrationalities and immoralities of religion.

Atheism, based on reason, is a positive, life-affirming view. By contrast, religions, because they (at least in their holy writings) denigrate our earthly existence, are philosophies of death. Nowhere is this point better illustrated than in Christianity; its entire philosophy is based on a hatred for this life. Any system that teaches that this life is but a testing ground for eternal bliss is a philosophy of death.

Anyone who claims that atheism is a religion is completely ignorant as to what the basic tenets of what atheism (and religion) actually are.  Atheists will have none of this nonsense. They recognize the religious world as a fantasy world, and religious belief as a form of self-delusion that should have no place in a rational mind.

Actually, it is a victory for atheists when believers call atheism a religion; by doing so, believers are at least tacitly admitting that the word "religion" has become so discredited that even they are using it as an epithet!

Atheism, far from being a religion, is its exact opposite. Atheists recognize that if there is to be a "heaven," it must be made now, here on earth, in this life. And it is we who must make it.

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jan 25, 05:32 PM

Not to keep adding to this topic which is way off of my original subject...but, Shoo...I completely disagree with you that people choose a religion because their parents believed in it. You can ask just about anyone who believes in a religion and who follows their religion and I guarantee 99.99% of them will tell you that they also CHOSE that religion. I'm not muslim because my parents told me to be. I'm muslim because it's right for me...just like you are choosing atheism because it is right for you. You don't believe in God, and you know what? That's fine with me. So with that being said, why are you so adamant to try to prove that those who believe in God are wrong? Maybe that's not your intention, but it's how it's being received.
Guys...my whole point to this blog was to start a discussion about what it is like to be among a minority in a society and how to cope and educate those around you by not only empowering others, but empowering yourselves.
How on earth we got stuck on this whole God vs. no God thing and how we're still on this neverending topic is beyond me. I think we've established that there are those who believe in God and there are those who don't. Beyond that, who cares as long as we can all exist in this word together peacefully? That's my only concern when it comes to people existing not only as humans but also as neighbors, friends, brothers, sisters, fathers, mothers, men and women. 
Can we please get back to the subject at-hand? I'm truly interested in what others have to say regarding my original blog. If this discussion of God vs. God is to carry on, please start your own blog to that effect.
Thanks everyone for your contributions.

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 25, 05:48 PM

Masriya...I will give you my word that the above posts by me will be the last regarding NO GOD.  Sorry to have hijacked your post.  Peace.


nubianbutterfly

nubianbutterfly wrote on Jan 25, 11:13 PM

Ha, Shoo if you would follow your own advice about "I wish that you could comprehend my point rather than trying to correct my assertion" you wouldn't be in a state of defense. Why don't you just try to understand what was said in this blog without pushing your own belief's. Just try it, you might be enlightened.

shoobidoobidoo

shoobidoobidoo wrote on Jan 26, 01:24 PM

Nubian...I'll will try my best to be enlightened...thank you and everyone else for this engaging debate.

Love you all,

Peace.

rezak

rezak wrote on Mar 16, 06:14 PM

Wow.  Wow again.  I just finished reading this whole post and am shocked for a few reasons.

1. You guys are great. I never seen such heated engagement in deep rooted believes with such politeness and respect for each other. 

2. I was promised that our new cybercity will give us a new way of expressing ourselves, without restrictions but with topics that come from real people, not media. This is the proof that this city is ours. Ours to keep, grow, learn, and be better people. If we can influence this city, we can also influence our physical city.

3. This is the unfortunate part,  going back to the original question.  The media in the western world (as it is a lot more sophisticated that the eastern world propaganda) is winning this war hands down.  Their push for the last decade has been to get the people to be against each other as governments are, so it helps the heads of states to do what they want to do.  Seeing this blog is telling me that unfortunately, they are successful in their drive, as they have put us in different sides of the fence that does not exist. One is on the offensive, the other is on defensive.  What are we fighting for is unknown. What we are trying to get to is abstract? Even for us.

But what is the outcome?  The outcome is what we've seen develop for the last few years. It's the same outcome we've seen between whites and blacks, landowners and workers, and many other man made conflicts that stemmed from human ego.....for many centuries.

So are we giving in? 

If everyone stops and ask him/herself a simple question, answer the question honestly and then start a new life based on that answer, we will all be a better person and it definitely starts from there.

If I am driving down the street and I see a 7 year old child was hit by a car and lying on the ground, would I stop to help her???

If the answer is yes, then do you care if the child is White? Black? Muslim? Christian? Jewish? Irish? Ethiopian? Samoan? Boy? Girl?

I didn't think so.  So you have it in you to concentrate on all the good things in all of us, no matter where we were born, what color we are and what our parents thought us. That only makes us more unique, interesting and at times challenging.

Love,

Reza

sohilmomin2000

sohilmomin2000 wrote on May 27, 07:01 AM

everything is said above
we can know why muslims are terrorist if we know the history
from the begining the islam is criticised and muslims are suffered
the al kayeda who bombed on 9/11 was founded by america it self
it was formed by american fbi in time when there was russian assault in afghanistan
and given weapons
why there are largest factories of weopon in the america and britain as they claim to be peace lovers......????????
they are the biggest sellers of the weopons
and they are the true terrorists
there are some muslims who r terrorist but they are made by countries like america
tell me how they get weopons so many and money
no muslim billionair is giving money for them
if u think from charity then it can not be proven than it is a biggest lie of the world
so if we want peace then lets talk about simillarities and not the differences in us
lets not talk about past but think about a good future
do not continue enemity in ur heridatory
forgiving is theway to end the war
as quran says
come closer to each other in common terms and try to understand each other
so live and let live is the motto of my life
i dont believe in terrorism
there are many terrorists gruops of hindus christians jew but they are not related with their religion then why islam is related with irresponsible ativity of a human who is muslim?????

kinghaddad

kinghaddad wrote on Mar 18, 04:02 PM

You are not alone, obviously. I would add my voice to the issue and raise my concern over the fact that not one single Arabic or Muslim organization is trying to sue those media outlets over their targeted campaign. I wonder what would happen if they broadcast a program demoizing Jews and degrading them??? I can assure you that whomever is responsible would never work in TV ever again.

We don't know how to go after those agencies and make it very costly for them whever they produce something like that.

sohilmomin2000

sohilmomin2000 wrote on May 14, 09:16 AM

every body gets the complain that no one is saying against terrorist attacks than i would like to add that in india the worlds biggest islamic conference took place and the islamic scholars have banned terrorism and given fatawa that it is no allowed in islam and now they are giving conferences all over india in different parts gathering muslims and giving the right knowledge to them and guiding them to the truth

so there is no excuse left for the critics of islam to accuse muslims now

and about terrorist attakcs if u go on the site of cia usa it lists the attacks of terrorists on that site and you will find only 28 attacks of terrorists related to islam and out of them 26 are said to done by them and no proof available and 2 are said that al qaeda claimed they did it

if u see the list of attacks by hindu terrorists i.e. ulfa has more than 700 confirmed attacks and christians have many more than any other religion

so we cant say that religion is responsible for this attacks

it is the fault of the people who are aethiests and dont fear of god and just want to make money buy selling their waepons they keep the fighting going on and on by one or other means

so to get peace in this world to prevail we require religion

religion is not the cause of terrorism but injustice and opperession is the true cause of terrorism

may allah give peace and blessings on all of you

William

William wrote on Jun 03, 09:33 AM

hey

oh daym, is this what you guys get in america? Im Will, im asian\muslim, and living in Australia. Over here, people accept whatever religion your from, and we get on with our lives. Well there are obvioulsy some fags that think wrong. But pretty much every culture here is working together. Hence our harmony day last semester.

I always knew that there were muslims in america, but  i never knew about the trauma you guys were having. we hardly get news of arab\muslims or anything about islam being critizised here. Heck, i have a band. My drummer follows Juddaism and my second guitarist is christian.

And last but not least, may Allah help see most if not all Americans see the light

Your brother in Islam from Austrlia
Will

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jun 03, 09:48 AM

hi, William! thanks so much for your comments. it's so refreshing to know that you're having a good time in Australia and that there is harmony there. It's a blessing, and it would be wonderful if countries around the world would follow that acceptance.

that's great that you have such a diverse band! any of your clips posted here?

peace be with you, my brother!

amen212

amen212 wrote on Jun 27, 12:21 AM

Hello Everyone..

I agree and disagree with many of you. I do agree that Muslims are going through some tough tim