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innocense_smile's Blog

i wonder

this was august 2006

How do u fix something thats already broken? I'm sure its all me. My relationships never work out the way i want them to. I think i expect too much with out knowing what the other person wants. I mean i've tried and tried but always get the same results.  Am i tryin too hard? Every time I get with someone that i truely care for they push me away. At least thats how it seems to me. What am i doing wrong?

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valarien

valarien wrote on Oct 06, 07:51 PM

This one made me smile! I am not laughing at you, but this is CLASSIC!

As women, many of us want to be care takers. We want to take away the pain, we want to fix the problems. The truth of the matter is, in your heart, you know when someone is broken and instinctively, you want to 'fix' them.  Very rarely is the repairman the best person to possess the very item that he repaired.

It's like your art. When you are working on a piece, every piece you work on cannot be so perfect to you that you refuse to ever let it leave your presence. If you do that, then you never really get to share with the world what you created for the enjoyment of others. When you  try to help another person in their growing process, it's very hard to be both a facilitator of the process and a lover at the same time. One actually can undo the other.

So, maybe if you start your search with someone who seems to NEED nothing from you, but WANTS to be beside you, you will find a totally different result.

Girl, all things happen in the time they are meant to!
Keep pushing through, he is out there!

Heavenlyeyes1967

Heavenlyeyes1967 wrote on Oct 07, 02:45 AM

I think you are in my head...LOL


I used to always think it was me...but it took a true friend to tell me it wasn't me, they were not worthy of my time or my love. I tend to fall, before I get to know the person...the real person. So now Im taking time to find out about the real person...and it's wonderful.

Im no longer trying to fix what I think is broken, there is no perfect me, there is no perfect him.

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