Hi Nuzizo Family,

I just want  you all to know  thatI have gotten your e-mails, your calls and all your messages of love. I love EVERY ONE OF YOU! My departure had nothing to do with you or something any one person did. I left because I needed to stand alone in order for me to grow into the person that God intends for me to be.

Nuzizo has been my home and my safe haven for the past year and as RedSeaDancer often says , it can be addictive! It can also be an escape but at certain times in our lives we have to come to that place of spiritual growth with no safety nets and no escape routes. I am at that point.

I absolutely don't want anyone to be sad. I'm not a martry and I'm not dead, I'm just absent for a while. What makes Nuzizo such a wonderful place is that we are brought together by our commonalities not torn apart  by our differences and being a part of that family has made my life so much better! But as in all families there comes a time that some families have to  leave their nest to spread their wings to discover all that  life has for them but they are never truly gone and sooner or later they come home, if only for a day.

Anyone who has ever talked to me about ending a relationship or the people that have hurt them know that one of my key phrases is 'releasing in love' that's when you let someone go not out of anger but because you love them and you love yourself and you recognize that in that moment it is what should be and ultimately it is a good thing. So I just ask that you all release me in love.

I love you guys and if you need me I'm always around just ask and i'm sure someone will let me know.

Much love!

Val