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MARRY ME...MARRY ME.PARENTS,HUSBANDS AND WIVES...HELP!!!!!!!

WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE FOR A PERSON TO MARRY?

Parents,husbands,wives and friends I need your advice.This is really serious.

I had a conversation with a a friend today and he told me that he's about to get married.WHAT???????????????????????????????????

 

What's going on?He is  19 years and still a student,he started a partime work not long a go.He told me he's about to get married so he want some advice,but I'm not  matured in such things so guys I need your help.I've tried  telling him to wait for at least two years because he is too young,but he's in love and when a person is in love he's blind and deaf.I don't know what to do but to support him so it's up to you my nuzizo friends:Parents,husbands and wives,I need your advice.

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princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Aug 29, 09:54 PM

Shouldn't we get married when we feel that it is time for them to get married?  I got married when I was young and it was not so much love but my mother's big mouth that "persuaded" me to do it. In hindsight if i know what i knew now I I would have waited until I "fellt the time was right for me.  Not for anyone else to decide for me.  Look mistakes are made every day on various subjects marriage is not excluded from that.  Whether 19 or 90 if a relationship is doomed to fail then it will.  Have a little faith in your friend. 

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Aug 30, 05:23 AM

I will have faith in him and give him my full support but he's too young.They are both 19 years and they've been dating for one year now.We had a serious conversation yesterday and he told me he is in love.They are even planning to marry this october.Anyway I can't stop them so all I'l do is to support him and reason with him like RedseaDancer said.

valarien

valarien wrote on Aug 30, 01:22 PM

Hey Mystical,
I don't think that you can necessarily place a number on when a person should fall in love.
I met my ex husband when I was 14 and I married him when I was 19 and in my case it was a mistake, but I also know another couple who have been married for twenty years and they got married at 19 as well.
I think that its a very individual decision and he will need your love and support and if it doesn't work out, just know that there are lessons in life and our life journeys teach us the things that we need to know.
Regardless of how it happens, just know that when it is all said and done, he will do exactly what he is meant to do. You know what I mean?
Take care and much love!
Val

simplycool

simplycool wrote on Aug 31, 07:14 AM

My grand parents got Married very young and they are still alive and together for nearly 6o years. the celebrated their anniversary just weeks ago.
. He is your friend his mind is made up, support him. Do what you can. A friend will always need you. Be there

simplycool

simplycool wrote on Aug 31, 07:14 AM

Love is what it is

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Aug 31, 09:55 AM

60 years!!!!!!!!!!This really great,God bless your grandparents Bro.I will support my friend because I can't change his decision.He need me and I'll back him in everything.

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Aug 31, 09:58 AM

Love is what it is,that's true.Thanks guys for your comments.

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on Sep 01, 01:19 AM

Marry when your heart tells you it's time! REALLY! Only the two involved can learn from this...together or apart...they'll grow from it!

My parents are still madly in love at 40 years of marriage! They still hold hands and do fun things together! Mom married at 18! Dad at 21!

Support your friend! He needs you now! Share in his euphoria! Love is a beautiful thing...a beautiful feeling!

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Sep 02, 04:18 PM

I think the best thing to do it's to think before acting it's true love something crazy meaning some people do not think before acting when they're in love......there's time for everything so to conclude i'll say that they should think over and over again before they're regret....whatever

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 05, 09:30 AM

He is now a husband...He got married yesterday and I'm very happy for him.Hurrray

princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Oct 05, 10:52 AM

WOW! I knew you were going to a wedding but I didn't think it was his. CONGRATULATIONS TO LOVE!!!!!

Evans congratulations to you on your support of your friend.

princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Oct 05, 10:58 AM

Not for nothing but THAT was quick. I can only wish. I have months of planning for my own but I it will be worth it for the beauty of it...Laughing

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 05, 05:08 PM

Auguri.....
Tam:are u sure ain't that a lie Laughing

princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Oct 05, 05:14 PM

Jay trust me it will all be worth it. I'm just wondering if I'm having the party for everyone else or for he and I.  I wouldn't mind just he and I and a minister ,

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 05, 05:19 PM

Am a minister of the International tam tam world.......................Tongue outu gotta invite me n Pope Mystical(am jealousFrown)

princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Oct 05, 05:20 PM

LMAO! Oh you both are invited, but why are you jealous?

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 05, 05:27 PM

I don't know tell me..........................Cry

princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Oct 05, 05:37 PM

Jay!! FERMARE FLIRTARE! It's funny lol

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 05, 05:39 PM

Dai fai la brava TESOROEmbarassed

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 06, 04:26 AM

Ecco ci siamo...!

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 06, 04:26 AM

Thanks for the congrats.

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 06, 06:57 AM

hey Pope MYSTICAL Yell

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 07, 01:19 AM

Hmmmmm....Frown

KhalilaB

KhalilaB wrote on Oct 08, 02:08 PM

We all know that he will do what it is that he wants to do.  All you can do is be there when he needs you and pray that everything will be okay. There is actually no right time to fall in love...so putting a time line on when he should do it is totally null and void. LOL  He'll be alright...you just be there to support him.  You giving advice at this point in time m ight not do anything but make him shy away from you.  Thats not what needs to happen if you foresee possible issues.

KhalilaB

KhalilaB wrote on Oct 08, 02:08 PM

We all know that he will do what it is that he wants to do.  All you can do is be there when he needs you and pray that everything will be okay. There is actually no right time to fall in love...so putting a time line on when he should do it is totally null and void. LOL  He'll be alright...you just be there to support him.  You giving advice at this point in time m ight not do anything but make him shy away from you.  Thats not what needs to happen if you foresee possible issues.

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 08, 03:01 PM

Thanks Queen and KhalilaB...It's great,I did what a good friend should do so I supported him and he got married  last saturday:that's on the 4-10-08.It was a great day.He was so happy and I'm happy for him too.

KhalilaB

KhalilaB wrote on Oct 08, 08:03 PM

Ur welcome!  I just know when I Was at that age, if someone told me NOT to do something, I was going to do it anyway just because they said not to.  Then Try to prove them wrong and then I end up in a whole bunch of mess! LOL  I wish him all the luck and love in the world.  It might just work out!  If not...never say I told you so! LOL

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 20, 08:53 AM

ETERNAL HAPPINESS

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 20, 01:34 PM

HEY!! Wait a minute are u meaning this are the lover's that u were talking about?? Then that's great!! HALLELUJAH..........

princesstamtam

princesstamtam wrote on Oct 20, 07:24 PM

It sure looks that way :)

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Oct 21, 12:38 PM

That's my friend and this is real.I wasn't kidding.I'm living real life on nuzizo.

Jonny86

Jonny86 wrote on Oct 21, 06:02 PM

NICE!!

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