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"Crooked Arrows"-- by Blackthelion

Today  I was talking to a friend  about something and  as  we  we're  jokingly talking he said," I want to kill cupid for shooting me with a broken arrow!"

I thought what followed this statement was very interesting and I wondered  how many other people felt like he feels. He  said  that  every time he meet a female and they get involved and she has a friend, he always seem to be more compatible with the best friend than with the love interest. He  said, cupid  uses  crooked  arrows on him. Do you ever feel this way? You cant try for the friend now! I told him, that's the rules, she's off limits now! You have to find a way to connect with the one you're with! They say," birds of a feather flock together" and since they are best friends, maybe those compatible qualities are in her also and maybe you would see it if you kept your attention on her! Was this good advice? I am not  sure because there were  times  when  I  too  felt that  I caught  some  of those  "Crooked Arrows."

Comments (4)

kiakam

kiakam wrote on Apr 15, 09:00 PM

"connect with the one you're with"- is a great advice!  

cretura

cretura wrote on Apr 25, 02:00 AM

crooked arrows??? is this serious? how many times can this happen to one person? there has got to be a lie attached to the truth here..."everytime " and "always" are clues in my life. when i use these words i'm lying. perhaps i'm comming up with a reason or justification for a creation that i'm unwilling to destory.


perhaps asking questions about his beliefs around relationship. does he believe that a compatiable mate is always just out of reach? it be may interesting.

cretura

cretura wrote on Apr 28, 02:23 AM

he is creating the cycle. it's fine. it's choice.

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on May 05, 08:17 PM

Isn't this the typical..."we want what we can't have" (or shouldn't have) situation? Maybe the girls were too easy to conquer so he got bored fast and at the same time was getting to know her "friends" as  mutual friends. Men are funny sometimes...women too ;). We just don't like it easy! We want to work hard for it! When we have it too easy we don't usually appreciate it the way we should. Your friend is not to blame...he just gets what he wants FAST! He'll find his match! Keep us posted!

Very thought provoking!! As usual Black...great blog!

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