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3rd Graders Plotting to Harm Teacher?

When I heard and read this news report I was floored.  Third graders (9 and 10 year olds) plotting to harm their teacher because she scolded one of them for standing on a chair.  Where are their parents?  What are their parents teaching them?  Who is to blame for their behavior?

To continue, I couldn't believe it; then maybe I coluld because I know just how vile, vicious and rude even young children can be.  I'm just glad that one student had the courage to speak up and tell a teacher that actually took the matter seriously.  This brave act saved the tagetted teacher from serious harm or death.  Now if only all teachers/faculty took matters seriously.

My own 9 year old is being picked on and the school is failing to stop the problem because they just don't care.  I've called, I've asked for meetings and I'm at my wits end such that my son won't be returning to that school in the fall.  I could tell him to just punch the crap out of the kids that are bothering him but then of course the school will pay attention and call me in for a meeting and probably suspend him, so I can't tell him to do that although handing out some black eyes or swollen lips will put a stop to the problem.  Beiieve me it works. 

 When I was little a group of girls used to tease me every day and make me cry which of course made them tease me more.  One day I had had enough and since I was the bookworm my bookbag was always heavy.  A few good wallops on the ringleader was all it took to make them all go running home and kept them from bothering me ever again.

I just wonder what is society coming to. since this isn't a problem among just one group of people but is widespread.   We are concerned about high school students fighting or worse bu now we need to look at the young children who are often the children of children themselves.  They need guidance and fast or better still how about some "scared straight" sessions; make them spend a weekend in a youth detention facility where there will be no video games, no running outside when they want and certainly no back talk.  And since often the parents lack of parenting is also at fault, make those parents spend some time on the inside too.

 

Comments (4)

kiakam

kiakam wrote on Apr 02, 10:39 PM

In your son's case, what were you hoping school authorities would do? How do you think they can "protect" children from being picked on?

Great blog

FaizahJ

FaizahJ wrote on Apr 03, 06:50 AM

In my son's case or any child's case for that matter, school authorities have a responsibility to ensure that the school environment is conducive to learning and calm.  When parents bring a situation to their attention it is also their job to act upon it and follow-up as needed.  Parents are often accused of not being involved, so it is inappropriate to in essence dismiss parents that are.  My next move is to contact the superintendant of schools and the school board and make this a district-wide matter.

I took a tour of a local charter school and the environment was vastly different.  It was calm, there were staff constantly in the halls.  The children moved quietly through the halls.  Those in the classrooms were actually paying attention, those in the library were actually focusing on learning something as well.

When our children are at school we expect them to have positive days not days fraught with fear and upsetment. 

Thanks for the "great blog" comment.

kiakam

kiakam wrote on Apr 03, 04:22 PM

I believe it is essential for parents to be involved in every aspect of their child's life. I applaud you for demanding the treatment your child deserves!

DRomeo

DRomeo wrote on Apr 10, 12:04 AM

Faizah, very thorough breakdown.  Your attitude about this issue is inspiring.

Thanks.

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