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CHEATING! CAN IT BE JUSTIFY.. PLZZ READ WOULD LUV YOUR OPINION!

A very long time i haven't written a blog and this thought has been on my mind off and on but this morning just really been thinking about it..Can cheating on your mate spouse can it be justify, yes we'll know about the spouse mistreating each other physical abuse, cheating, emotional and such.My main focus will like to be financial..

 

I can only speak from my point of view and my experience, i have gotten alot of comments from peers and other that i am very mature for my age, in independence my way of thinking and most importantly alot admire my ambition..  I have always attracted older women sometimes much older than me I some how does get attracted to them also.  Being the fact i think they have been through life and looking to settle down. I guess they're attracted to me from what they have told me, I show them respect, loving that most of them have never experience, try my best in finance and my ambition.   

Times goes on  then you know i may start to get small hints, like you know financial stability (which i can't give fully as yet studying takes alot of money) am young I don't even have my own vehicle. To cut a story short can you be upset a woman or man for wanting financial stability that their spouse can't provide for them, but have everything else loving caring understanding respect but don't have finance. Can you be upset with that person for going out and maybe having a friendly or a lil too friendly relationship which most of the time lead to something else with someone who can afford to meet their needs financially..

AM ASKING AS A FAMILY AND FRIENDS GIVE YOUR OPINION I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW CAN CHEATING BE JUSTIFY.. I CONSIDER ENDING A RELATIONSHIP ABRUPTLY AND RUNNING INTO ANOTHERS ARMS IMMEDIATELY CHEATING!

 

Comments (5)

luvcum4ter

luvcum4ter wrote on Jan 17, 01:06 PM

Forget to say i dont blame or wont be upset for long with that person well cause u cant blame someone for wanting to be happy but just hope that next time they enter into a relationship they analyze the situation and know what they want then enter

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on Jan 17, 08:28 PM

Cheating cannot be justified in my book Bevon because you end up cheating and hurting yourself in the end. There is always a price to pay for our actions. Hurting someone through cheating is a selfish act. Why not just be honest with yourself first and then "do" something about it? I know sometimes things happen and people are caught in a relationship with ties (could be financial or kids) which makes it more difficult . When someone goes after money for convenience or the good life or security or whatever, it puts them in a class of their own.  One I'd rather not be part of.  When someone goes after "LOVE" instead and it's reciprocated, it becomes such a beautiful thing.  I know you and I know you are one for the heart! Does lose your vision with your studies and career though! You will go far and love will find you too!

kiakam

kiakam wrote on Jan 17, 09:19 PM

Every experience, good or bad, is an opportunity to practice what you aim to be as a human being... I don't think there is a need or reason to justify anything....people are responsible for their own actions. You have the choice. You can choose to be hurt by this experience or you can choose to grow from it and to let go...

Soulfuleyz is right, keep walking the path God has chosen for you,and you will find all that your heart desires...cause it's God's perfect plan for you ;)


Keep shinin' =) Life is good.

luvcum4ter

luvcum4ter wrote on Jan 19, 02:48 PM

Thanks everyone for your comment much appreciate

Mystical

Mystical wrote on Mar 04, 01:49 PM

Cheating is bad.In life everything that a person does threads after him or her.My advice is to follow your heart not your head and chose to do the right action,remember that you are going to bear the consequences,if you chose to do the wrong action.Love is happiness and pain so just follow your heart Brother.

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