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Crossroads...HELP!...

the journey of my life...

My eyes are closed. My mind is open. I'm trembling inside. I'm torn...
What will I do? What shall I do? Should I continue packing my boxes for the impending move?  Should I take the chance and leave everyone to continue my journey to a place I've only just visited. Risking and chancing is no problem to me but what do you do when your friends and family cry and beg you to stay? Do I stay for them or do I keep on trekking? I feel the love but I need to continue my journey but I'm at a crossroad ...My father and grandmother's hearts are not strong. What should I do?

Comments (12)

DRomeo

DRomeo wrote on Jul 30, 09:58 PM

I'm learning that living my life to the fullest is one of the highest duties I can perform for my family.  Perhaps it would help to share with your family your adventures, let them know what your heart is telling you.  After all, hanging out with adventurers is good for the soul :)  They will benefit ultimately.

PEACE....

kiakam

kiakam wrote on Jul 30, 11:17 PM

Life’s a journey and takes us far away sometimes. Dreams are travels for the soul…follow your dreams. Your family will be with you…

gin_0

gin_0 wrote on Jul 31, 03:35 AM

There are always good reasons to stay in the same place, and maybe a risk never sounds quite as good and yet.. something new never comes without risk.  Be who you are!

starzshowz

starzshowz wrote on Jul 31, 02:58 PM

dive in HEAD FRIST ..........................SWIM DEEP,

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Jul 31, 04:22 PM

When my sis moved to another city, my mom was totally against it. She moved anyway, and she got her life out of it. She came to knew exactly who she was and what she was capable of. She's a better woman today because of it. My mom came to visit and finally saw that it was a nice place for her to be....share with them as DRomeo says...then they won't be so against it...eventually.

Good luck to you!!

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on Aug 02, 08:23 PM

Thank you all for your words of wisdom! I can't tell you how great it feels to get the love and support from all of you! This is really a dilemma for me! Nuzizo rocks! Al-Arabia rocks!

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on Aug 30, 12:31 AM

UPDATE...
A calm came over me and a light shone brightly...

I AM STAYING PUT FOR NOW! FAMILY IS HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY!! Smile

masriyaATL

masriyaATL wrote on Aug 30, 03:11 PM

Congratulations on coming to your decision...and the most important thing is that YOU are happy! Kiss

valarien

valarien wrote on Nov 27, 06:23 PM

The calm is Spirit, as you already know. 
Regardless of what all of us say in any situation, the answer is always there within you.  In every experience, there is Divine guidance that will never lead you astray and even when we don't listen that Divinity continues to help us to learn and grow regardless of which path we take.  There is Faith, Courage, Wisdom and Love.  We know that Love is the greatest and that Love is Divine.  Listen and be still, in that place of Love and it is not possible for you to go wrong.
Much love, girl!
Val

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on Dec 10, 01:31 AM

Val...your wisdom is greatly appreciated! Thank you! Kiss

Angelike

Angelike wrote on May 30, 12:42 AM

Hold on to dreams, for if dreams die, life is like a bird with broken wings that can not fly...


It's almost a year after you wrote it but better late than never Wink

SoulfulEyz

SoulfulEyz wrote on May 31, 01:10 AM

 Better Late Than Never

 I do Angel! TY! I Prayerize, visualize and actualize my dreams. For if I don't pray...for if I don't hope...for if i don't dream...for if i don't try...for if I don't love...I'll be a lost empty stagnant soul. I wouldn't be me! Kiss









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