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Does Love and Money make good bedfellows?

Posted by CherryMoon on Tuesday, July 24, 10:20 AM

I know about separation of church and state. But is there a separation of Love and Money? They say "a fool and his money is soon parted." Do you belive this? Are you willing to pay for love? Have you paid for love?

Just throwing out some questions on a Tuesday morning.

So Nuzizo, what are your thoughts?

Comments (7)

Miss_Dior_Cherie wrote on Jul 26, 01:33 PM

I do believe that a fool and his money should soon part. I am not willing to pay for love, howver I believe that love like anything valuable requires a financial sacrifice and investment. Some people don't see the importance of love anymore, its lost a lot of its luster and has been replaced by love.....don't get me started MDC

CherryMoon wrote on Jul 26, 01:45 PM

No by all means Miss Dior - please continue. It seems to me that the money question has come into my circle for a reason. This came up from a conversation with a girlfriend and or this week, I had a situation with a personal friend.

I too believe that Love is one commodity that people now take for granted. Some, unfortunately, do believe that their Love can be bought for a price. I just wonder what price they're willing to pay.

So many things are becoming "old fashioned" or "out of favor." Just makes me wonder what will happen in the next few generations, should this behavior become the "NORM."

CM

luvcum4ter wrote on Aug 06, 09:58 PM

Paying for love its not love that i know but ass mis doir cherie said there're sacrifices that must be made for love both financially and personally!

CherryMoon wrote on Aug 07, 10:38 AM

Luvcum4ter - I believe in sacrafice - not suicide....

giorgoslarisa wrote on Aug 10, 04:55 PM

The truth is, that for love, you don't pay but ho is this ho don't pay for the Love? Ofcourse if you talking for SEX yes its possible to apy and sometimes very expensive.

Mte321 wrote on Aug 11, 03:56 PM

Relationships and investing are both complex subjects in their own right - mixing the two can sometimes be a recipe for disaster but it's a risk as is everything in life. If you separate the money, you take away a degree of integration that should be present in any long-term relationship, or separate accounts allow each the ability to retain their independence, actually strengthening the relationship.

Which side is right? That depends.

Before you can even consider planning a financial future with someone, you have to look at what type of personality you each have. If you managed your finances, made your own investment decisions, and had qualified retirement accounts before you got involved, you will probably be very hesitant to give up that control to anyone - including the person with whom you may spend the rest of your life. On the other hand, if you were prone to spur-of-the-moment spending and liberal use of credit, odds are you would more readily opt to open joint accounts. In the end, the accounts should only be merged if (and this is absolutely vital) both parties have the same type of financial personality. The moral? As cruel as this sounds, if you or your spouse cannot be responsible with the finances, you do not deserve to have control over them. This is especially true if you have children. Love is terrific but managing your money in a relationship is a different issue that can make or break a union.

jdavis085 wrote on Jan 05, 03:55 PM

Love and money

In my short time of life I am only 25 years old it seem like now most girls are out their for money not love. Love is something that is missed use now days. I had a problem one time in my life where I was buying this girl everything that she wanted and getting her hair and nails done. what I was doing at the time was trying to by love. I never had sex with this girl but I was dum at the time.
Now that I have goton older I have learn that you can't by love. I have not date to many girls now becase most of the ones not are out their just for money it sad to say but it all about a money now days. Their are a very few people that can base their selfs off of Love. or it my just be me I got to take it slow and find true love but you have to have money to make a relagionship work to support each other.

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