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Interracial Relationships

Posted by deliciouswoman on Friday, May 25, 07:14 PM

Everywhere I go I see many interracial relationships and knowing that there are some that can't stand it.

I am a product of an interracial relationship as well as my daughter. My mother is Korean and my father is black; my daughter is part German, Korean, black, caucassian, and Indian. I had people tell me that I should have stayed with my race but what part of my race should have I stayed with? I always tell people that if you don't like what you see then go somewhere there aren't any interracial couples but there are very few countries that don't have interracial couples in this world.

Now, I would like to know from all of you three things:

How do you feel about interracial couples or relationships?
Would you date someone outside of your race?
If you have dated someone outside of your race; how did it go?

Comments (6)

CherryMoon wrote on May 29, 01:08 PM

How do you feel about interracial couples or relationships?

I don't care one way or another. Every one has a choice to be with whom ever is going to make them happen. Doesn't make any difference what color they are or their nationality. Although I do understand that some old schoolers would appreciate if you "stay in your race." However at this point in our lives, who can say what we are? None of us are "pure" anything. All you have to do is some research to find this out...

Would you date someone outside of your race?

If love decided to knock on my door and it wasn't the same color, then I'd be more than welcome to let him in. To me this goes hand in hand with appearance. If someone wasn't what you thought size, height, hair color (this is infinite of course), but would you not still love them? Love is Love and has no preference....

If you have dated someone outside of your race; how did it go?

I can't say I've had, but if you read the first paragraph, that my opinion on how it "would" go.

CM

kiakam wrote on Jun 01, 02:57 PM

Love is infinite.... you reflect the light regardless of any color, shape, or form....the sun will shine down on you, no matter what! Love is the mirror as well as the face.

Cultural difference, however, can cause challanges within the relationship if both are not open and understanding to those differences. Communication, of course, is essential.

Williaminmd wrote on Aug 08, 02:07 AM

I've never imagined myself in only being with one race as a preference. Some however like only the other which I think is improper ( everyone has an opinion). Actually its seemed that I am liked more by other races other then my own ( white). I really wouldnt care what anyone thought of me being with another, its about she and I being happy. It really goes beyone that.
In the former Yugoslavia there were bosnian Muslims marrying Christian Serbs, and other religions marrying into others. Kiakam mentioned the differences that can cause problems in which case if that is so then you should avoid them. "Love" or not. If I felt love creeping in, I would adjust values but, only to an certain extent. No one should really care what anyone thinks of you. Except for your employer but, that is beside the point.
Thanks all

HoneyBori wrote on Aug 09, 01:02 AM

I feel and think that color should not make a difference in love and marriage. No one knows who their heart is going to fall for n what race they are going to be. love should be color blind. It's not the persons' color that matters, it should be what ur heart feels. I am Puerto rican and have dated outside my race, I didn't see the color of the guy, I saw the man. I'm still dating outside my race:) I don't care what people think about who I'm dateing because of their skin color, I'm the one dateing the guy not them!!!! People need to see that if all skin color was taken away, we are all the same, we bleed, hurt, feel, laugh, have a heart and we are all human beings.

giorgoslarisa wrote on Aug 09, 02:32 AM

open your heart and don't feel the color. feel the love....

Jarrett wrote on Sep 23, 05:07 AM

One answer to all - I am happily married to a Thai and I am Caucasian - great!
Jarrett

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