Okay...met this dude and he seemed all nice. A bit older than myself, but I swear he has NO, self esteem. And I have no idea what he thinks, but if you don't have confidence in yourself, why would he expect me to have confidence in him?
I've raised my children and enjoy PLAYING with the grands, but I don't have room in my life to take care of another Child. And he's older than me.
I think we've all at some point in our lives been hurt, mis-treated, used or sometimes worse. However, MOST of us are able to move on. I'm not saying I don't have my own insecurities, but it's not something I broadcast, especially to someone I MIGHT be interested in. (Plenty of time for that later - LOL)
Seriously though, I just cannot believe that this person is so (I hate to use the word desparate, but it seems to fit) desparate that he's willing to change his belief system to have SOMEONE.
Well, I'm me. Take me leave me, I'll keep rolling. Life is like that. I am not desparate - YET (ROFL) But I do think that it's a shame that someone of his age would be willing to just give up everything to have something or someone.
Although I am far from perfect and am quite realistic about my flaws, I'm comfortable enough. And for me Enough is good. But I'm not chaning for anyone and at this age it would be difficult to say the least.
Life is crazy sometimes and the players in it are even more so.
If you want a women in your life, you can expect her to play woman and man. Sometimes you gotta reach down, grab your boys MAN UP!!!!!
Because this WOMAN is looking for a MAN, not a BOY.
Whew!!!! Do I feel better.
Yall have a good weekend